What Are You Basing Your Story On?

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They went on a third date, they had a very good time, when he came close, kissed her and wanted more, she stopped him and explained it’s moving too fast.
It’s been 4 days and there’s no trace of him.
She erased his number and all their WhatsApp correspondents, decided he is not for her and supposedly, locked up the story.
And why supposedly? Because inside she was furious.
‘All he wants was sex’, she said. ‘How dare he disappear like that??’
Her thoughts couldn’t rest.

He also, came on their third date.
A little nervous, because after their last date he told me he’s not that sure she wants him.
On their third date, when he came closer to kiss her, she stopped him and he realized she’s not into him. Since then, he stopped trying and haven’t heard from her since.
‘I don’t get women’, he said to me with sad eyes.

None of them checked with the other person, they didn’t dare to open it, because like most of us, they are so afraid of feeling rejected.

Instead, also like most of us, they would rather tell a story and suffer.

None of them checked with the other person, they didn’t dare to open it, because like most of us, they are so afraid of feeling rejected.
Instead, also like most of us, they would rather tell a story and suffer.

She suffers from her story that he only wanted her for sex, and when she didn’t reciprocate, he left her.
He suffers from his story that he didn’t make her want him enough.

Two marvelous people, who their fear of rejection killed their chance of a relationship.

What are you basing your story on?

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Maayan Ben Zion

When I was 32 years old, my family and I went through a terrible crisis, when my 3-year-old daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. I found myself most of the time in the hospital, while I had a 1.5-year-old waiting at home, who also needed a mother.
After a long and exhausting time, we found grace and won the battle. My daughter is now 21 and fabulous.
This crisis forced me to look at my life from a different perspective, and choose another path, open myself up to questions I never dared to ask.
As a part of the process, I left my job as an attorney and began learning coaching. My heart started beating again.

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